a coined variation of the
phrase iron hand in a velvet glove, meaning
absolute or inflexible firmness concealed by mildness or gentleness in approach.
Mailed means clad in mail, a flexible
defensive armor consisting of small, interlinked metal rings or
chain-
work. The
phrase iron hand in a velvet glove contrasts the hardness of
iron with the softness of velvet. It is referenced in one of Scottish historian
Thomas Carlyle's (1795–1881) works where he
states, "Soft of
speech and manner, yet with an inflexible vigour of
command ...'
iron hand in a velvet glove,' as
Napoleon defined it." Thus, it appears
Napoleon Bonaparte (1760-1821,
French general and emperor) originated it." The
phrase, however, has also been attributed to other rulers.